Leading a growing team with many different personalities is not an easy endeavor.
When Drew and I started our last business, an event management software company, we needed to assemble our first sales team. It wasn’t very difficult in the beginning; when we found a qualified candidate, we’d hold an interview, and then hire them if they felt right for the position. It was simple enough. Once they were hired, we naively figured the hardest part was behind us.
As we began to grow more rapidly, we were quickly scaling and adding sales reps to qualify leads and conduct demos of our software. We assumed that as we added more reps, our sales numbers would continue to increase proportionally, but quickly learned that was far from the truth. Instead, we found that as the sales team grew larger, our sales increased at a lower rate.
It became harder to be productive, rather than easier.
Each sales rep seemed to perform in different ways, depending on the type of prospect they encountered. Some seemed to do well with big customers that required establishing a long, consistent relationship beforehand, whereas others did well in shorter sales cycles for smaller customers that were sold in a more transactional way.
Unsurprisingly, as we continued to expand swiftly in sales, we encountered many other challenges. Communication progressively became more difficult, which negatively impacted our overall performance. It became more strenuous to keep all of our sales reps informed about the nuances of product updates. Additionally, each member of the sales team appeared to respond uniquely to my natural management style. While it felt easy and natural to get along with some, it felt like a struggle to even be on the same page as others.
We quickly began to understand what many seasoned leaders have learned through experience: leading a growing team with many different personalities is not an easy endeavor.
Every group is composed of complex people with vastly different personalities, communication styles, motivations, and personal experiences. Unsurprisingly, this intricate mix often makes group communication far more difficult and stress-inducing than one-on-one communication.
Take our current company, Crystal, for example - our office is a melting pot of strengths, weaknesses, communication preferences, and backgrounds. Without an understanding of each other’s differences, we would put ourselves at risk for frustration, confusion, and significant interpersonal conflict.
Thankfully, we use our own product for daily management and collaboration, so each person on our team can understand the unique work style of everyone else. The result is a collaborative and communicative culture, where our team takes the default position of empathy over ignorance. We use personality profiles to help each other improve and grow, emphasizing our strengths and building systems to accommodate our blind spots.
If we have a solid grasp on each person’s differences, strengths, weaknesses and communication style, we can operate much more effectively. In other words, to be better leaders and grow great companies, we need to understand the intricacies of personality.
DISC is a well-known, scientifically-proven four-factor personality model used to classify personalities into a few categories that we refer to as D (dominance), I (influence), S (steadiness), and C (conscientiousness). Each of us has a primary DISC type in one of these categories and sometimes a secondary DISC type in another. To keep things simple, we separate these into easy-to-remember labels called Archetypes.
You can see them all on this graphic called the Personality Map:
Below is a breakdown of common personality traits within each of the categories in DISC.
D Personality Types: Captains, Drivers, Initiators, Architects
I Personality Types: Influencer, Motivator, Encourager, Harmonizer
S Personality Types: Counselor, Supporter, Planner, Stabilizer
C Personality Types: Editor, Analyst, Skeptic, Questioner
These differences are extremely important to understand when approaching a conversation with anyone. For example, someone who is a warm, people-oriented Supporter (S) is less likely to engage in a discussion about facts and data. They’d usually prefer to engage in a more personal, get-to-know-you conversation. An Analyst (C), on the other hand, tends to enjoy learning more about specific, concrete information. By identifying someone’s personality type, we can learn how to best communicate with them.
Being a leader carries tremendous responsibility to communicate well, understand others, and make sure everything that needs to be done is completed. It can be overwhelming for some, while others may find themselves naturally drawn to the challenge. As a leader, it’s important to be consciously aware of your own strengths and blind spots so you can use your talents effectively and avoid your natural pitfalls.
D Personality Types (Captains, Drivers, Initiators, Architects)
Strengths
Blind Spots
I Personality Types (Influencers, Motivators, Encouragers, Harmonizers)
Strengths
Blind Spots
S Personality Types (Counselors, Supporters, Planners, Stabilizers)
Strengths
Blind Spots
C Personality Types (Editors, Analysts, Skeptics, Questioners)
Strengths
Blind Spots
Within the team, people are likely to receive direction and leadership in different ways. As a leader, it becomes your job to be adaptable to many different communication styles and preferences. This is important to establishing trust, building connections, and communicating effectively. By understanding your employee’s preferences and adapting your communication style to match, you are likely to have more engaged employees who are happier and more productive.
D Personality Types: Captains, Drivers, Initiators, Architects
Meetings: Should be very brief, to the point, and only scheduled when necessary.
Emails: Should be brief, business-like, and concise.
Feedback: Should be direct, actionable, and focused on the most important points.
Conflict: Essential for improvement, as long as it is actionable and objective.
Team: Teams should have a leader with clearly defined authority and effective distribution of responsibilities.
I Personality Types: Influencers, Motivators, Encouragers, Harmonizers
Meetings: Should be done in-person when possible, without a rigid agenda.
Emails: Should be friendly, casual, and personal.
Feedback: Should be focused on the high level and delivered with encouragement.
Conflict: Can be a powerful tool to discover new solutions and ideas, but can also lead to people arguing in circles.
Team: Collaboration is essentially for teams to build relationships and achieve goals together.
S Personality Types: Counselors, Supporters, Planners, Stabilizers
Meetings: Should be done in-person when possible, with a prepared agenda.
Emails: Should be warm, sincere, and expressive.
Feedback: Should be thoughtfully explained and delivered with empathy.
Conflict: Should be handled with caution, as it can escalate and result in hurt feelings.
Team: Should support each other and make sure everyone is always on the same page.
C Personality Types: Editors, Analysts, Skeptics, Questioners
Meetings: Should be minimal, formally scheduled, and with a prepared agenda.
Emails: Should be clear, detailed, and factual.
Feedback: Should be specific, detailed, and delivered with logical reasoning.
Conflict: Conflict is a useful way to discover truth and bring underlying issues to the surface, as long as emotions are kept out of it.
Team: Should allow individuals to make their own independent contributions and create their own processes.
When delegating tasks, it’s important that you keep in mind the activities that will give someone energy and activities that may drain them.. If people are constantly given tasks that exhaust or overwhelm them, they’re likely to be much less happy and productive.
For example, if you asked an Analyst (C) to host a big party for potential investors, they’re likely to be:
However, if you made the same request of an Encourager (Is), they’d likely be:
DISC TYPE |
ENERGY DRIVING BEHAVIORS |
D Personality Types Types: Captains, Drivers, Initiators, Architects |
Completing ambitious projects on a tight deadline. Communicating with quick conversations and messages, only when necessary. Taking primary responsibility and ownership over large projects. |
I Personality Types Types: Influencer, Motivator, Encourager, Harmonizer |
Regularly interacting with a large, diverse group of people. Providing verbal encouragement and telling stories. Explaining things with emotional, expressive language. |
S Personality Types Types: Counselor, Supporter, Planner, Stabilizer |
Paying attention to the needs and concerns of other people. Playing a supporting role on the team and staying out of the spotlight. Responding to difficult situations with empathy and compassion. |
C Personality Types Types: Editor, Analyst, Skeptic, Questioner |
Solving problems with thorough analysis of the existing data. Taking time to meditate on a problem before making a final decision. Working on projects independently and bringing results back to a group. |
DISC TYPE |
ENERGY DRAINING BEHAVIORS |
D Personality Types Types: Captains, Drivers, Initiators, Architects |
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I Personality Types Types: Influencer, Motivator, Encourager, Harmonizer |
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S Personality Types Types: Counselor, Supporter, Planner, Stabilizer |
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C Personality Types Types: Editor, Analyst, Skeptic, Questioner |
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Delegating the right tasks and addressing people in a way that energizes and motivates them boosts overall morale and engagement. Not only will your team be more productive and efficient - they will be happier while working. That’s the point of all of this: communicating in someone’s preferred style and giving them work that energizes them will make them happy, safe, and comfortable and, in turn, lead to a more productive, healthier, positive environment for everyone.
I have to admit, I haven’t always been the best at managing people.
A few years ago, we hired a Supporter (S), who we’ll call Wendy. Wendy was kind and encouraging, but would take a few days to weigh the risks and benefits necessary to make important decisions. As a direct and assertive Architect (Dc), I tend to prefer fast-paced, efficient work environments and did not have an easy time accepting Wendy’s slower pace. When I made my expectations clear, she seemed hurt and offended. Similarly, I would address any problems I had with her work as quickly as possible and in person, in order to effectively discuss them. Wendy always seemed to have a difficult time doing this and would often seem to agree quickly with me, offering no defense for her own actions and perspective. Though, I’d later find out that Wendy did not necessarily agree with me after all; she was just avoiding conflict.
When I realized what was going on, I put a great deal of effort toward making Wendy feel more comfortable. For starters, I offered support by sharing recognition for the good work she had put into the company. I took the time to show appreciation for her contributions and set aside time to get to know her more personally through a team lunch. She seemed to really appreciate everyone going out to eat together. I began being less overt and blunt in my feedback; instead, I focused on addressing the good work she had done first, followed by a more soft, gentle expression of what I felt could be improved. I continued offering support, encouragement, and community day-to-day, and her productivity began to increase. Though she didn’t seem to enjoy the first couple of weeks on the job, a simple change in management style helped her thrive.
To be sure, this doesn’t mean I used that adjusted management style for everyone. To the contrary, we had a Questioner (CD) on the team, who we’ll call Robert. For Robert, my style of direct, assertive management was effective. Though Robert still took his time making well thought-out decisions, he didn’t take my need for efficiency too personally. He usually liked clear feedback and appreciated when I skipped over small-talk. As long as I gave him plenty of space to work independently, Robert worked well with my natural leadership style.
You’ve been entrusted with a position of authority and guidance, it’s so critical to understand who the people you’re leading are and how their tasks affect them. Tools like Crystal can tell you what someone’s personality type is, how to best communicate with them, and what tasks will be energizing for them.
By making an effort to learn about your employee’s unique identities and using personality insights to help you communicate more successfully, you can create a cohesive, united, smoothly-running work environment.