People with an Enneagram type Five personality tend to be curious, independent, and observant in their behavior. They love to pursue knowledge and seek a deeper understanding of the world around them. They often prefer privacy and time alone to think, which may lead them to withdraw from others.
What is Enneagram Type 8
(The Protector)?
People with an Enneagram type Eight personality tend to be self-confident, powerful, and assertive in their behavior. They love engaging in debates and are skilled at making difficult decisions. They are fiercely independent and hate being reliant on others.
Communication
How can Fives and Eights communicate effectively with each other?
Enneagram Fives are motivated by the desire to feel useful and competent, while Eights are driven by the need to remain in control of their own lives.
Fives should be direct and clear when addressing Eights.
Eights should be calm and concise around Fives, allowing them plenty of space to recharge.
Resolving Conflict
How can Fives and Eights resolve conflict?
Fives and Eights should work through issues logically. Fives need to express their perspective openly and stand their ground. Eights should listen closely to Fives, without interrupting; they should then express their own viewpoint calmly. Both personalities should be patient and level-headed while working toward a relatively peaceful settlement.
Building Trust
How can Fives and Eights build trust?
Fives tend to trust Eights who are rational and intellectual. Eights should give Fives plenty of personal space.
Eights are likely to trust Fives who can be open and firm. Fives should engage in occasional debate or discussion of an interesting issue.
