People with an Enneagram type Four personality tend to be creative, sensitive, and expressive in their behavior. They like to be unique and seek to find their own identity. Though they desire relationships, they may seem distant and reserved, especially in group settings.
What is Enneagram Type 7
(The Adventurer)?
People with an Enneagram type Seven personality tend to be enthusiastic, adventurous, and spontaneous in their behavior. They love seeking out new experiences. They are people-oriented and enjoy pursuing new relationships.
Communication
How can Fours and Sevens communicate effectively with each other?
Enneagram Fours are driven by their need for personal identity, while Sevens are motivated by a desire to find satisfaction or fulfillment. Fours should try to be positive and open-minded when addressing Sevens. Sevens should try to communicate more emotionally with Fours.
Resolving Conflict
How can Fours and Sevens resolve conflict?
Fours should communicate their feelings calmly with Sevens while remaining empathetic to Sevens’ tendency to reframe situations. Sevens should be considerate of Fours’ need to work through a situation emotionally by sharing their own feelings. Fours and Sevens should be open-minded and patient while working through issues.
Building Trust
How can Fours and Sevens build trust?
Fours generally trust Sevens who communicate and connect on a deeper, more personal level. Sevens should respect Fours’ autonomy and allow them space to think.
Sevens are likely to trust Fours who maintain a mostly positive mindset. Fours should try to participate in and enjoy experiences that excite Sevens.
